CHAPTER 105 DEATH FROM TRAUMA—MANAGEMENT OF GRIEF AND BEREAVEMENT AND THE ROLE OF THE SURGEON
Death from trauma is a tragic event, often affecting young and previously healthy people. It is rarely peaceful or dignified. Traumatic sudden death leaves in its wake confused, disoriented, angry, sad, and overwhelmed survivors. Their reactions separate hem from life, from reality, and sometimes from caring about themselves. This is grief. When death occurs from sudden, unexpected events such as car crashes, suicide, or murder, grief reactions are more severe, exaggerated, and complicated. The griever’s ability to use adaptive coping mechanisms is limited.
GRIEF
Bereavement refers to the objective situation of having lost someone significant to death. Throughout their lives people have to face the death of parents, siblings, partners, friends, or even their own children. Bereavement is associated with intense distress for most people. This distress is grief, defined as a primarily emotional reaction to the loss of a loved one. It includes diverse psychological and physical manifestations (Table 1).
Affective | Behavioral |
---|---|
Despair | Agitation |
Anxiety | Fatigue |
Guilt | Crying |
Anger | Social withdrawal |
Hostility | |
Loneliness | |
Cognitive | Physiological |
Decreased self-esteem | Anorexia |
Preoccupation with image of deceased | Sleep disturbances |
Helplessness | Energy loss and exhaustion |
Hopelessness | Somatic complaints |
Self-blame | Susceptibility to illness/disease |
Problems with concentration |