CHAPTER 9 Coping with Medical Illness and Psychotherapy of the Medically Ill
OVERVIEW
Coping with illness can be a serious problem for both the patient and the physician. Indeed, the irony of our increasing prowess in healing is our growing discomfort and our profound sense of impotence when a cure cannot be found, and when coping is the order of the day. This dilemma is both consciously realized and unconsciously experienced; both patients and staff feel the ripple effect.1–3
WHAT EXACTLY IS COPING?
At virtually every step of patient care, physicians and patients alike actively appraise patient coping. Though this appraisal is not always conscious, it is clear that conclusions drawn about how a patient is processing his or her illness has great bearing on therapeutic decisions, the psychological well-being of the patient, and indeed of the overall course of the patient’s illness.1 However, accurate appraisal of coping skills is hampered by muddled definitions of coping, by competing standardized assessments, and by a general lack of conscious consideration of how patients cope and whether their particular coping styles are effective or helpful.4–7
Early conceptualizations of coping centered around the “Transactional Model for Stress Management,” put forth first by Lazarus and colleagues in the late 1960s.8 This conceptualization stressed the extent to which patients interact with their environment as a means of attempting to manage the stress of illness. These interactions involve appraisals of the current medical condition, with psychological and cultural overlay that varies from patient to patient. While this definition of coping persists to this day, many have argued that though it is a useful paradigm, it is also too broad to allow for standardized assessments in patient populations. Thus, while multiple studies of patient coping exist, most clinicians favor a more open-ended evaluation of each patient, taking into consideration the unique backgrounds that patient and doctor bring to the therapeutic setting.5
Coping is perhaps best defined as a problem-solving behavior that is intended to bring about relief, reward, quiescence, and equilibrium. Nothing in this definition promises permanent resolution of problems. It does imply a combination of knowing what the problems are and how to go about reaching a correct direction that will help resolution.1,6,7
In ordinary language, the term coping is used to mean only the outcome of managing a problem, and it overlooks the intermediate process of appraisal, performance, and correction that most problem solving entails. Coping is not a simple judgment about how some difficulty worked out. It is an extensive, recursive process of self-exploration, self-instruction, self-correction, self-rehearsal, and guidance gathered from outside sources. Indeed, these assertions were central to Lazarus’ initial conceptualizations.8
How anyone copes depends on the nature of a problem, as well as on the mental, emotional, physical, and social resources one has available for the coping process. The hospital psychiatrist is in an advantageous position to evaluate how physical illness interferes with the patient’s conduct of life and to see how psychosocial issues impede the course of illness and recovery. This is accomplished largely by knowing which psychosocial problems are pertinent, which physical symptoms are most distressing, and what interpersonal relations support or undermine coping.
WHO COPES WELL?
Few of us cope exceedingly well all of the time. For all of us, sickness imposes a personal and social burden, with accompanying significant risk and threat appraisal. Furthermore, these reactions are seldom precisely proportional to the actual dangers of the primary disease. Therefore, effective copers may be regarded as individuals with a special skill or with personal traits that enable them to master many difficulties. Characteristics of good copers are presented in Table 9-1.
WHO COPES POORLY?
Bad copers are not bad people, nor even incorrigibly ineffective people. In fact, it is too simplistic merely to indicate that bad copers have the opposite characteristics of effective copers. As was stressed earlier, each patient brings a unique set of cultural and psychological attributes to his or her capacity to cope. Bad copers are those who have more problems in coping with unusual, intense, and unexpected difficulties because of a variety of traits. Table 9-2 lists some characteristics of poor copers.